so here goes, some medication for my heart, because it is feeling heavy and quite bogged down by toooo many things.
Like exams, and just really there is so much on my mind right now that if you were to unfurl it, it might be able to fill all the books on the planet. And so what have i decided to talk about ? sex :D
haha!!! it is considered nearly taboo in the society that i am living in today, hell everyday . Like that day i was talking about it to a friend on the train, just a brief conversation on sex and stuff and people were staring as though it was a weird topic... and perhaps ready to stone us or something. Anyway, sex is overstated. nuff said. Sex is just in out in out, to the regular people. They say in Singapore, people don't enjoy sex. Well why ?! Sex is, well to use the cliche : sex is beautiful... it is not just mindless motion, ok maybe perhaps sometimes it is just the ridiculous motion. But it is the joining of two people, well to the divine people they call it something ...uhm... spirit to spirit or something like that. Well they say that it is not just the joining of the two bodies but also the joining of the two spirit soul and body... well there is little i can say.
Anyway back onto sex. So why is society frowning on the thing that it needs the most ? shy ? i guess so. so to quote the black eyed peas ... " where is the love ? " i really dont see it and when it shows up it is frowned upon. For example to enter into a sex shop in Singapore is a shameful thing to do... WHY ?! some people need to masturbate, to quell their sex drive... or perhaps for pleasure... like buying a dildo or a vibrator is like purchasing heroin. IT IS NOT SHAMEFUL! some couples role play or perhaps they have sex in the open as in not covered under the blankets. WHAT IS TO BE ASHAMED ABOUT THE HUMAN BODY.
no really... ok i cannot stand it :P go to the mirror and strip ! seriously look at your entire body in the mirror. stare at it ! there is nothing shameful. it is your body, you cant change it you just have to accept it. nothing is shameful in sex. people have some fetishes like feet, s&m, stockings, nurses, teachers... the list goes on. personally... i have some fetishes of my own. Please i have nothing to be ashamed about... i would willingly post it up here... fine why not... feet, teachers, i think solos ? yea anyway... there is nothing to be ashamed about. I am what I am. At least i am not shamed bout my sex.
So what is so special about sex ? well i guess it is the pleasure, it is the fun being in the same bed, ok maybe the same place as a person you love sooooo intimately. For some it is about the body movements. For some it is about having the adventure. Well no matter what it is. I still stand by my belief that one spouse, one lover, till death. Yea perhaps that is old school to you, but it is meaningful to me.... love is important, but sex as well...it must be enjoyable, must have passion and of couse must be trained up for :P... yes sex requires training. i wont go into the details, cos you need to think ! what fetish the other partner has well i guess fufill or break it is the only thing you can do :P heeehee... only one thing to say : go forth and multiply with PASSION ! XD
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